What I know about my internal dialogue.
I wanted to die. Not feel the pain and isolation anymore — knowing that my absence would be of no real consequence to anyone. One thing that made that moment worse was knowing that if I did jump, everyone would likely say, “It’s her own fault anyway.” Even in that instance I’d still be blamed.
Now that I think about it, if someone killed themself, my initial reaction would be, “What would drive that person to do that? What kind of torture was that person going through, that ending their life would be the only way to end the torture?” But it was never like that for me. No one would ever think to investigate why I killed myself (if i had).
Three things would happen in succession right after. (1) I get blamed for being stupid, and causing so much inconvenience for others. (2) Someone would be happy I’m out of the picture, after getting over being inconvenienced. (3) Life would go on instantly. Or maybe right after some damage control. My room would likely be converted into something more useful than anything connected with me.
STUPID GIRL! That would have been the end of it. My non- existence looked very similar to my existence.
Maybe it was one of two things that held me back.
I imagined myself falling, then “Splat!” On the ground. Would i feel pain? Would I feel freedom or fear on the way down? I was fairly certain I’d be instantly dead. Five glorious stories down into dirt and gravel. I imagined how our neighbor would react to seeing me broken-bodied on the ground. I don’t remember if I ever wondered what would happen to my body after. Or who would come see me. I do remember thinking something about God and if life could be ended as simply as killing oneself.
Maybe it was because I thought about not wanting to give them the satisfaction of getting rid of me that easily. Maybe it was because I was afraid of what would happen to me afterwards.
As i closed my eyes, thought about stepping off the ledge and lifted one foot up, some “thing” poked at my heart and made me step back instead.